My Dad

Outside of the occasional post extolling my love of my life partner Terri (well, at least I think she's my life partner), I rarely share my personal life on social media. That kinda caught up with me yesterday when one of my daughters tagged me in a post referencing the Celebration of Life we had earlier this week for my Dad.

For whatever reason, I just wasn't ready to share his passing online...thinking maybe I'd honor him next June on the anniversary of his passing when the pain wasn't so raw. But, I forgot my dearest friends...who I'm sure were hurt that I hadn't shared my loss with them when they learned of his passing on Facebook, of all places. J'excuse.

So...yeah. My Dad has departed terra firma. And this world was blessed with his presence. And I owe 49% of my persona to him...because I am my Mother's child, but I own his disdain for authority. And that has served me well in this life.

I'm sure I'll come around next summer to eulogize him...but, that the news is out, it's time to honor him on this Music Friday.

I actually did, without naming him, on the weekend after his death with this track from The Unforgiven.

I'm not sure I ever knew his favorite song...but I always caught him luxuriating in this one. And, rockin to this one.

And this is the song I imagine he sang on his way home.

He was an amazing man...and I'll hold his memory close forever.

Comments

[George Tzougros]

Thank you for sharing, Bill. As the Greeks say, "May his memory be eternal!"

[Bill Geist]

Thanks, my friend. And, it will be as long as those who knew him take breath.

[Renee Areng]

Lovely tribute, Bill. So sorry for your loss. It looks as if he had a long and prosperous life, a gift in itself. May he rest in peace.

[Dave Blank]

So sorry to hear, Bill. Our condolences.

[Lee T]

I know this wasn't easy...respect for doing it. A lovely nod to your Dad. Someday, I'd like to know more. I did like your first two music choices...classics! If you are 49% his, who did you get most of your musical tastes from? My condolences on such a large life loss. It's gonna take a while to absorb...it just will. Be well, my friend.

[Bill Geist]

Thanks, my friend. I'm sure most of our Dads had oversized influences in our lives. And yes, he gave me the thirst for music exploration. My Mom gave me the thirst for learning about people.

[Judy Barnard]

It is so difficult losing a parent - at any age. I am so sorry for your loss, but he will truly live on through you!! I am glad for what you inherited from him!! “Disdain for authority” seems more relevant these days! May his wonderful memories sustain you in the coming year.

[Bill Geist]

Thanks, my friend. Best to you.